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1、Gethimtotreatyouwithmeloverespect如何讓他對你更愛更敬如何讓他對你更愛更敬Haveyoueverwonderedwhysomemencontinuetotreattheirwomanlikeaprincessevenafterthey’vebeentogetherfyearsTheystillrememberallthosespecialoccasionevenseemtopayfullattention
2、toherwhenthetwoofthemaretogether.Somebehavialscientistsbelievethatitispossiblefmostwomentoencouragetheirman’sbehavitomoveinthatdirection.HowaboutyourrelationshipcoulditusealittleencouragementinthisareaGettingyourmantosho
3、wyoumeloverespectThesecrettounlockingthissamedegreeofloveaffectionfromyourmanisprobablysomethingyou’veneverconsideredbefe.Ithasitsbasisinbehavialscienceonceyouundersthowitwksyoucanliterallyreprogramthewayyourmanrespondst
4、oyou.Weallrunavarietyofprogrammedresponsepatternsthatautomaticallytriggercertainreactionstofamiliarsituations.Theseresponsepatternsshtcutthethinkingprocesscreateadirectlinkfromtriggertobehavi.That’swhywedon’thavetothinka
5、boutthingslikeusingthekeytostartthecaransweringthephonewhenwehearthatringingsound.WhenemotionaltriggersbackfireOncethishappensitisgameoverhewon’tlistentoanythingyousay.Thisiswhenarguingfingerpointingreplacereasonableconv
6、ersationasbothpartnersdefendtheirpositionbyblamingtheother.Notaprettypicture!3StepstomeloveadeeperemotionalconnectionSincebothpartnershavetheseemotionaltriggerseliminatingthemcansetthestagefamelovingconnectedrelationship
7、.Butbefetheycanbeeliminatedtheyneedtobeidentifiedthendealtwithinaneffectiveway.Here’sasimple3stepprocesstoaccomplishthat.1.Identifythespecificbehavifromyourperspective.Thinkofafewspecificactionsthatyouknowsethimoff.Isitt
8、hetoneofyourvoiceperhapsit’sacertainphraseyouusewhendiscussingasensitivetopicTrytofindtheconnectionbetweenyouractionswdsnegativeresponse.Takeyourbestshotwritealistofthingsyouthinkitmightbe.2.Nowfromhisperspective.Askhimt
9、ohelpyoufigureoutwhatyoudothatsetshimoff.Hemaybehesitanttotellyousoassurehimthatyoureallywanttoknow.Thenlethimtalkresisttheurgetogetdefensive.It’spossiblethathe’snotevenawareofaspecificlinkbetweenwhatyou’redoinghisrespon
10、se.Ifthat’sthecasethenjustgowithyourlist.3.Startavoidingthosewdsactions.Simplyeliminatethemfromyourlifesoyounolongertriggerthatunhealthyresponsepatternseewhathappens.Whenyoutakeawaythetriggerthegunwon’tfire.Thismayinvolv
11、ealittletrialerrbutyoucanrelyonhisresponsetoguideyoureffts.ArelationshipisatwowaystreetIamwellawarethatthismethodputstheinitialburdenonyoubutithastostartsomewhere.Oncethoseolddestructivepatternshavebeenbrokenhehaslearned
12、totreatyouwithmeloverespectitwillbealoteasiertohelphimseethevalueofavoidingcertainbehavisthatgetunderyourskin.It’sashamethatnobodyreallytalksaboutthistechniquebecauseit’sextremelypowerfulwksinalmostanysituation.Ilearnedi
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